{"product_id":"the-nearest-exit-may-be-behind-you","title":"The Nearest Exit May Be Behind You","description":"\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eLambda Literary Award Finalist\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\r\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eNow in its second printing\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\r\n\r\nAlternately unsettling and affirming, devastating and delicious, \u003ci\u003eThe Nearest Exit May Be Behind You\u003c\/i\u003e, is a new collection of essays on gender and identity by S. Bear Bergman that is irrevocably honest and endlessly illuminating. With humour and grace, these essays deal with issues from women's spaces to the old boys' network, from gay male bathhouses to lesbian potlucks, from being a child to preparing to have one; throughout, S. Bear Bergman shows us there are things you learn when you're visibly different from those around you--whether it's being transgressively gendered or readably queer. As a transmasculine person, Bergman keeps readers breathless and rapt in the freakshow tent long after the midway has gone dark, when the good hooch gets passed around and the best stories get told. Bear offers unique perspectives on issues that challenge, complicate, and confound the \"official stories\" about how gender and sexuality work.","brand":"S. Bear Bergman (CA)","offers":[{"title":"Paperback \/ softback Trade paperback (US)","offer_id":44733316202789,"sku":"9781551522647","price":19.95,"currency_code":"CAD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0727\/7851\/4725\/products\/BNCImageAPI_9df54a56-d8a6-41fd-b9cb-dde3584902fd.jpg?v=1679348583","url":"https:\/\/crossandcrows.myshopify.com\/products\/the-nearest-exit-may-be-behind-you","provider":"Cross \u0026 Crows Books","version":"1.0","type":"link"}